• SURVIVAL & HEALING

    The Breaking Point

    There were a few events that led to my moment of awakening. Signs of emotional abuse are easy to ignore or dismiss. A black eye or broken arm can awaken the point of walking away but how do you know when enough is enough after subtle emotional digs, over and over? When is the point where you say enough is enough? We start thinking that something isn’t right, but our minds go straight to only the good times. When we start thinking we are gaining the courage to really look at what is happening, floods of memories pour into us and blind us to the truth. Silent Treatments are Abuse…

  • SURVIVAL & HEALING

    Out of the Abyss – Losing Myself

    When I married my first husband, and father of my two children, life changed.  He already had two young boys.  So I was instantly a 20 year old stepmother of two.   Despite the pleading of  my parents to at least wait until after graduation, I quit college at the beginning of my junior year to get married.  I convinced myself that my life would be wonderful.  My life would consist of creating a happy home with my new husband and his boys. There Were Signs There were signs  that things were not good even before the marriage.  I missed these.  Signs of  infidelity, emotional abuse, anger, control issues.  We fought…